Likewise, I don’t feel insecure around gay men or transgender women unless they have toxic personalities. I don’t believe I have anything to compete with transgender women in a femininity competition. However, having a toxic personality is a different matter. If you’re a type of person who displays deep-seated misogyny and a general antisocial mentality that’s not suitable for a citizen in a democratic society, I think it’s wiser to consider that perhaps your place isn’t in the public sphere.

If an incredibly attractive man is gay (or trans-attracted, whatever) and doesn’t develop any sexual or romantic interest in women, I quickly lose interest and move on. I think that’s a healthy mindset for anyone to have. If I hold onto a gay man who doesn’t feel anything for me romantically, I think I would feel so pathetic about myself and possibly even kill myself, because it means I have nothing else going on in my life other than developing a hopeless crush for someone who’s never going to reciprocate. I think that’s the most foolish thing I can do with my precious time. nostr:note1f2lj3dzh4c697p62e9dsf5xqnlxvmn7ggfeya545f785q5n4flnsxylpnc