Great response.

The dichotomy of control is on what is within one's control vs what is not (TLDR - your character is the only thing). Our sphere of influence is not directly in our control but is affected by our actions. Lastly, attempting to change that which is out of our control will lead to a morose life.

Therefore, current stance is being one with nature, having a virtuous character, and controlling or influencing what you can is good enough for a good life.