Dude you need friends. Your understanding of what trust is gives away your loneliness and terminally online condition.

I'm not accusing you of being propagandized into wanting a decent society of your own people. Everybody wants that. I'm telling you, you dont know how to do it because you've lived your whole life in our shameless propagandized society. Youre noticing, but you're not seeing.

"Nothing should be against the rules unless explicitly put into law" and "law must be distinct from religion" combine to create a shameless society. The fact that westerners look for legalese loopholes in everything they do stems from this fact. A society where some rules are social custom and not sanctioned or banned by the state leads to a high trust society. You dont understand trust because you live in a low trust society, if its not in an act of congress you can do it and theres nothing wrong with it, thats how it is, thats what you need to change to have what you want.

All these cultures you hate, you can hate them. But you need to understand them for various reasons. Know your enemy, why are they insular but your people, no matter how you try, are not, what do they have that your people once had, or that your people need to have to survive, all these answers come from open understanding. You dont have to love something to study it. Just because you find the majority of some way of life disgusting doesnt mean there aren't things it can teach you.

Somalis for example. Ones in the US live in a society where homosexuality is legal. But they dont have open homosexuality, why? Maybe they're all pirates and scammers, but they have that part figured out. Maybe they have the answer to the problem of wanton shameless buttfuckery. What do they do that prevents their children from running around pride parades with dildos strapped to their forehead? Maybe they value their reputations among their people more than the law. Maybe acts of congress aren't the answer. What do you think the answer is?