I was thinking of that women's boxing match at the Olympics. They let a man fight, and he just absolutely demolished the women.
The silver medalist quit after fighting him for 40 seconds. She fell to her knees and yelled "this is unjust", and forfeited after being punched twice. She's an Olympian boxer and she said she had never been hit that hard in her life.
Why was this allowed to happen? Because we keep listening to the wrong people who claim it's virtuous to let this happen. It's not.