I've known some really chill LGBT people. An old boss of mine was exclusively, proudly gay, but so straight acting I'd never have picked it otherwise. He was really, really good at his job, and a great teacher to boot. A devoted family man, believe it or not, with a long term partner and two delightful daughters through surrogacy.

...and then there's the loud, narcissistic, tantrum-prone, blue-haired enfant terrible and soon-legal-adult "non-binary child" of one of my clients.

I'd like to airdrop her over Kandahar.

Mulling whether she should get a parachute.