Yes, you should weigh your power against that of the enemy, project the consequence of your action or inaction, and choose wisely.
If you have the power of Trump, Bukele, Putin or Tate brothers (money, connections, guns, info and whatever else it is that they have), you may also stick a middle finger up in your enemy's face.
But only if in the grand scheme of things it is the most loving kindness approach there is.
Surprisingly, sometimes it actually is. Nothing is what it seems...