"as far as how to define nature you are going to have to do your homework in ancient philosophy..." My answer is there's no such nature to restrict people from expressing themselves.

I don't want to read, can you summarize it in a few paragraphs? If you can't or won't, isn't that obvious the trend you hate will continue ? Since the right mindset is so different to convey. And how can you be sure you will able to properly convey this to your family.

Sorry if this bother you, just ignore me if so. Good luck