Well see that is the issue. As a women you always think that people plan in advance what they want to say and how they want people to react. Normal men, do not give a damn about giving any special message. They say what they think at the moment. What they lack now is the ability to speak openly with women after 60 years of girls power, toxic masculinity and extreme feminism. You are paying the price of this resentment. Hope next generation will be better.