I honestly considered adopting a kid alone
Discussion
Do it, when you’re ready. I have faith that you can do single parenthood with the help of friends who will provide the female role, when you get ready to be a parent.
The state of the dating world today is not sustainable. And there’s no going back from here. People will adapt and change. I just don’t know what that will look like. I never imagined majority of relationships would ever start on a dating app. I thought those people were losers with no game. Now it’s the norm. But people have dating app fatigue too. Single women that are getting older will become desperate for a solution and, whatever that solution is, will eventually become normalized. I never imagined I could ever become like those bitter boomers that complain about everything but I can understand why this generation may become bitter toward this.
There’s huge opportunity for guys who will just go up and talk to girls these days. I know several single dudes who are doing no apps and faring quite well
Where do they go
Anywhere they'd normally go like
Restaurants, bars, plane rides, walking down the street, etc
They just strike up a conversation and see where it goes, mostly by asking a random question that makes the woman laugh or have to think of a good answer
Hit it off with the chick next to me last night on my way to Montevideo. She wasn’t attractive enough for me but she was a real one. I’d be her friend 100% we actually had a lot in common
I’ve done alright approaching women irl even though it’s hard to pull off bc you really have no clue if they’re single. The issue is the vast majority of attractive women are trash people. Randomly picking one the odds terrible for a successful relationship ever developing. It’s not impossible but improbable.