You are completely right! But there is a difference between how you treat people who you don't know, assuming the best, and how you treat people you know are complicit in your harassment.
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To check, I meant the general "you", so not pointing to you nostr:npub1vktdqqwunms2axujjp7ujqz5vgycfg3p8zdgn68v63nqs38puhksjf5s3g. If that's the confusion, sorry about that. (It's a confusing way of framing the sentence.)
But I've noticed this general criticism about treating people well, and I often feel like a fool when people don't reciprocate. It's just stupid.