I dont know if there is the soulmate for each of us. If there’s one and you hangover that day and won’t make it on time? Oops, gone. I like the idea of many soulmates and you being able to find one of them if you look up from your phone more and open yourself up for being found too, as who knows which one of you would be “looking” more that day. I don’t know, but life is longer than first love and most likely longer than “that one that got away”.