We can explain away everything if we try hard enough. That's a general observation, not aimed at you. Yes, we have an embarrassment of riches, but there's still a lot of embarrassment. Too many features no one uses and not enough that just work.

I haven't seen one dedicated DM/messaging app that works with any predictability; total mess. Find a normie or even a long-time nostr user who can explain what they should do with relays. Infinite scroll breaks daily for me in Primal for Android. It just stops. Muting is a mess. Comments about it abound.