https://realy.lol is a total replacement, not all drop-in but a lot is drop-in for go-nostr

it definitely has less bugs in it, but it probably has some other bugs that i haven't found yet

i was hoping that nostr:npub1l5sga6xg72phsz5422ykujprejwud075ggrr3z2hwyrfgr7eylqstegx9z had actually caught me a bug in my codebase but after testing, no, it's client side not authing correctly and ... yeah... i'm not opening my relay up to the spambots that have resumed in earnest, because they are not whitelisted to post on my relay and taht's how it is always going to be