i find it hard to answer the question "should i move to Trondheim?"

i know that i like the atmosphere, and i know i will have one friend there, and possibly more friends through him.

i don't know if i will mesh with his friends though. i never met them while i visited. i didn't even meet his boyfriend because he was away for a music festival. this friend of mine always liked to be alone with me so i never met anyone else that he knew.

also, his friends are mostly gay, and they go to gay bars and talk about gay stuff, which is great if you're gay, but might make me feel a bit like a fish out of water, like i don't belong there.

i think i need a network first. moving to Oslo without one didn't do me any favours. i didn't manage to make friends with the right people just because i moved to a place that is full of them.