If thats what you believe, I will not contradict you π - but some food for thought
We all have things to work on and i think our internal conflicts can bubble to the surface, manifesting in some way that is noticable to others.
So it brings to question:
If you've left your cocoon - are you flying free π¦ or are you convinced that you're still a cocoon, believing you have things you need to work on alone πͺπ. π€
That last part, there is a difference between knowing you need to work on things and percieving you need to work at it alone ππ«