In the end everything in life boils down to being responsible for yourself. Do the work to understand and trust your instincts.
Nobody but you can make the right decisions for you (and your children).
This is why governments and authorities continually make our lives worse, because they are making decisions from an ivory tower that only the individual should be making for themself.
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