Yes, and some of then have even been dating the same person for months before it happens, but they don't actually like each other, they're just using each other. They're only connected because of the bonding hormones that are released during sex. It's so sad!
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Nailed it!
What's worst is that you really dont even know someone until after 90 days as they are typically masking who they are.
I married my husband 68 days after our first date, but wow we were intentional!!
His mode of operation was to share all secrets, and a little bit to try to scare me off. Clearly I wasn't scared off. 😎 a lesser woman would have been, and she wouldn't have been right for him.
He led me emotionally, as well as all the normal ways.
We dated long distance over video calls, so we made sure to keep it PG, because that's not you really get to know someone instead of just building emotional bondes based on emotionalism.
We took and talked about personality tests, our dreams and hopes, our deal breakers and out deal makers.
We talked so much that we ran out of reasons NOT to get married. But we also included God, and God was totally our wingman.
Most Christians will try to talk God into someone they like, but in our case, God was talking my husband into me. God disclosed and clarified things that my husband was a bit unsure of at first.
But, I'm also a very high quality person who wants good for myself and others, and I'm intelligent, kind, and competent.
Our story would not be everyone's, but we did the work necessary to find each other, because we knew how to sort out those who didn't fit us.