Why don’t you simply take him out of the nursing home?
If you really care you would take on the burden of housing him and feeding him in your home. Otherwise just talk.
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With all due respect, that's quite a close-minded comment.
It's a very complicated situation and none of your business, but thanks for asking.
It’s always complicated. It’s always difficult. It can’t be about the money since you could technically take his nursing home fees as payment instead.
Sometimes you need to take handle over a complicated situation to improve the life of your loved one.
Anyways.
The American way is to put the elders out to pasture in a nursing home where they enjoy TOP NOTCH care in the hands of imported coolie labor.
I know you’re joking but yes the workers just do not care. Like at all.
If the “patient” puts up any resistance whatsoever they start to neglect them.
It’s fine you reap what you sow. If you don’t take care of your parents when you get older your kids do the same to you.