It seems you considering being a parent as a choice between:

1. Annihilate yourself

2. Annihilate the child

If I understood this correctly, please do not become a parent, ever.

Not before doing some reading.

If you are interested, I can give you a list.

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you don't have to annihilate yourself by having a child but if you're telling me it doesn't reduce your options and make you prioritise someone other than yourself then you're obviously not being serious

i am fine with people doing it if they want but why are they telling me there's something wrong with me if i make a different choice?

smells of brainwashing