It makes sense then that you believe the "China rising" narrative, since it would seem it benefited your family greatly. That doesn't change the macro facts though.
Just check the news last year and a couple of weeks ago again about their intention to reform the hukou system once more, aiming at creating an internal consumer economy.
That's pretty much what the US and EU have been doing for the last decades, a desperate attempt to keep up with the ponzi scheme through immigration.
China has skipped all the way through the development path, directly to the terminal decadence phase.
Of course the US and EU are also decadent fiat empires, so there is a lot of room for China to bully and be imperialistic on its neighbors and to exploit Africa. That doesn't mean that they're "rising" in the sense the US did in the 20th century. Not by a long mile.