Fiat gates, maintained by the government in the name of fighting terrorism are asking for KYC, not #Bitcoin.

The privacy? You've received some sats here on #Nostr. What information do you have on the sender?

I'm not sure what country you're living in but I believe you're running a relay so I guess you're technically capable of using BISQ for example.

For more options, have a look at kycnot.me

In most cases, you're dealing with strangers, treat them as such, don't trust anyone.