I have a great female friend who spent part of her life working both in a preschool and as an executive assistant. She says the jobs are basically the same. The important things are:
You are severely grumpy, please have a snack immediately.
Please take your ball to timeout, no one wants to play with you right now.
Look, I brought snacks!
Everyone needs a potty break!
You have to share your toys to get other kids to play with you.
Nap time!