I only need to see your note on 1 of my relays to get it. How it gets to this relay of mine can be interesting.

It used to be that we needed to share a relay to be able to exchange notes. Now there are relays that are acting like clients as well as relays. They both receive notes & broadcast them. Blaster relays are an example but personal relays are also getting similar functionality.

You can now have your own relay that acts like your master relay for your client. It receives & sends notes that you care about centrally & then your mobile client can connect to just that relay. Interesting times in decentralised social media.