https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12315279/Kevin-Spacey-exploited-enormous-power-imbalance-four-victims-make-feel-worthless-Hollywood-stars-sex-assault-trail-hears.html

And we get into academia-level nonsense.

If you are in a gay bar... someone might grab your junk.

Oh fucking well. Grow up and move on.