how you approach a woman signals to her which side you deserve to get. carry yourself like a simp and you will get the respectable lady side. carry yourself like an alpha and you will get the cum slut rag doll side
the mental defects on Poa.st imagine that you can change the woman. you can't. you can only change how she treats you. of course those idiots also think they get to choose who the creator of the universe is. they think when they decide which fantasy book to keep on their night stand ( harry potter vs the bible etc. ) that this alters the universe to match their preferred fantasy of it.
they think constantly telling each other "Jesus loves you" makes him real. clearly Jesus needs them to keep talking about him or he will stop existing since he has no power himself. it is the incels who really have the power to bring him back by constantly talking about how real he is.
then they wonder why they get no pussy. maybe they should try whining and complaining harder about how women choose the wrong guys. they must imagine every woman dreams of having as her man a retarded whiny child who just cries " but mommy i wannaaaa ! " 24/7