All by design. The millennial generation unfortunately took a big blunt force of the fuckery to the point many of them and or parents feel as if they are the wrong sex. Wrap that mental dilution around your head. That's often just the beginning of their reality.

They did this to The People's children in the tax funded indoctrination camps they call education. They shoved DEI and that people of different ethnic groups are more special than others or things need to be dumbed down to the least intelligent fluoride, vaxed, and boosted kid wearing the helmet and eating crayons. They dumb down real education and handed them cell phones with predator social media.

Tell the kids their entire dumbed down education that they won't be shit without going into debt for some new education that they won't be able to use in real society.

With all these factors against them of lack of time and money, a relationship can be out of their gasp if they were never taught to be self sufficient.