Then build it. Let's see it. I built and shipped my approach. It works fine with many relays and I have been using it for other things at the foundation. It works. You keep claiming it doesn't scale but you haven't even tried it.
NIP-96 still keeps the relay name in the reference in the text:
````
["url", "
"],
```
Which is exactly the thing I want to run away from. But it is an improvement.