To love, to submit to a narcissist - be it family, friend, relative, institution, job, relationship, anything - is to commit a slow and painful suicide.

To wriggle free is just as hard and difficult, yet always worth a try if there's even a slightest glimpse of hope on the other side. Don't ever forget that.

Where is that other side to be found, when states, countries have adopted control mechanisms that match the criteria of narcissistic insanity?

The goal of a narc is to drain their victim dead, gaslight to despair, scapegoat the best with victim blaming propaganda. Truth is the utmost enemy of a narc. Narcs aim for complete control, and any deviation from that, such as their victim living happily and peacefully their own life minding their business, is treated as a crime.

Yet their victims often take and internalize the blame, because it's outside of their comprehension that someone could truly behave according to such a socially sadistic murdering logic, which is a guideline of narcs.

Victims often behave according to a completely opposite logic, of trying to make it so others needn't suffer as they have. To do things that benefit all and many, to gain joy from making others happy. Even on the expense of one's own needs.

While to a narc it's a game of powerplay, everything boils down to power and control.

They are opposites like in math there are positive and negative numbers. The more positive you add, the more negative the narc adds to keep the equation at zero or less.

Narcs are like black holes sucking everything in with their intensity, gravity.

And the victims are like stars, suns, shining bright enabling life on nearby planets.