I had an unexpected realization:

What if family is not a proper nuclear of a republic nor of anything? What if one man many women, as it has always been before christianity, is the right model of family?

2 arguments in favor of this theory:

- Women don't much like men. They are much better entertained spending more time with women. Why do they have to be locked in a home without real good friends for them? And be forced to look for entertainment outside of the entity that is supposed to be the closest and best? And men don't much like monogamy. Feels artificial to me.

- This one man one woman family was pretty much invented by Christianity, was it not? Christianity is a religion invented by emperors for their subordinates. It was never about the wellbeing of an individual. It was to help farm the humanity easier. What are the chances that things that existed before and outside of Christianity are better than the ones invented by Christianity?