oh no i typed out a whole respons but it didnt get safed.

it was a story about a guy that told me about his drug-use at the first dinner that hes stopped/ was weening himself off of.

As I previously I typed i totally appreciate the honesty but its also a big "hell no" right away.

Still a very nice guy the really red red red red flag was when he ordered himself painkillers the next day and told me about it but needed to justify himself to me... im not that emotionally attached to other ppl problems to have to hear that he need the painkillers..

What was your question again?