I don't know who said it, maybe #[2] "Bitcoin is different things to different people".

Bitcoin doesn't care, it just produces blocks roughly 10 minutes.

I don't like monkey jpegs on the timechain, but I can do nothing about it.

I self-custody my on-chain coins, I run a node.

I still don't run my own lightning node (planning to set it up with btc pay server this year).

Am I less Bitcoiner?

I have an alby lightning wallet for zaps with few sats in there.

I'm using non-custodial wallet Phoenix, too.

I plan to tinker with blixt.

Everybody can use Bitcoin as they want.

You can improve your setup gradually.

Education is the key.