Federated services like Mastodon and Lemmy suffer from pseudo-centralization where larger instances can bully smaller instances into censoring content they ideologically disagree with.

Operators are immature and do not take the position serious and will defederate out of spite over personal slapfights.

Nostr is a better service and is resistant from this problem. If you want less cryptobros on it, encourage more non-cryptobros to use it.