I actually teach children of all ethnicities and color of skin to not use drugs, alcohol or any substance.. I own a sports community we’re I sometimes meet various young athletes and their parents and I learn them all to become the best version of themselves.
Hope you heal like I said and that you won’t isolate yourself and your children from meeting other humanbeings.
The world is a precious place where indeed also a lot of evil happens but as long as you teach your kids to follow God and be good in their character they will be alright my friend.
All the best to you and your family.