Well, I hear what you're saying, but the hard truth is that "many are called, but few are chosen," and since I don't know which ones are the latter, I speak indiscriminately to anyone who'll listen--as others did for me. It's 'good news' that others told us, and it shouldn't be kept to ourselves.
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Perhaps you meant it when you said there was no malice in the very beginning. That's already hard to make others hear, simply by saying it.