I know some people have had babies and seemed okay. There might be some randomness to it. Two of my friends had miscarriages. One was hospitalized and almost died. She was told that she can’t have babies and to never try again. Of course she blamed it on genetics. The other one ended up getting a divorce so idk what will happen to her in the future. I know someone that had one healthy baby and then a premature one. The premature baby seems okay now.

And I’m also very afraid of having a baby with someone and then losing her to heart failure or something. Raising kids without a mother would be miserable.