F it I'll join you we can exchange stories
Discussion
If you are coming from iOS, I usually recommend staying with the default pixel experience for the first few months. Otherwise, it's hard to know the difference between designs and bugs from an official version that almost everyone uses to the ones from open source teams.
The open source keyboard, for instance, kinda sucks on Graphene.
Noted. I was a pixel guy for years - only jumped back to iOS because my wife got a free phone. So I'm really returning home. But no experience with Graphene, so good looking out.