Relying on a single bridge, like Mostr, fixes the duplication problem (for both sides). But it's otherwise suboptimal. Anyone on Nostr can ruin the reputation of the Mostr instance in the Fediverse and cause it to get banned by many administrators.
I think it would be better when most people who care about following folks in the Fediverse run their own bridge. This could be based on Mostr. You could self-host it on your own domain or point your DNS to use a cloud-service. Maybe you can even create a Fediverse account on some bridge-service. It would then only cross-post messages from your public key to your Fediverse account, and create Nostr messages for any replies to you.
That leaves the problem of how to handle boosts. When you boost Joe Rogan from the Fediverse, your Nostr followers will see a new npub, e.g. npub_sjors_joe_rogan. Then when you buddy also boosts them, that creates a whole new npub, e.g. npub_sjimmie_joe_rogan. De-depublication remains a pain.
Let's call the fedi-multiverse problem :-)