Not surprising! It’s not just to men tho but to people in general.

I obvi believe in and practice altruism but truly altruistic people are rare!

Those are the Helpers that Mister Rogers spoke of, from PBS kids’ TV series that I’ve actually never seen, but he wore lots of comfy cardigans.

Human beings are inherently selfish and self-interested. Probably one of the reasons why I don’t really like people in general (but they like me cuz I’m VERY likable, don’t care!)

Anyway, thankfully I have excellent intuition for people I DO like (even if haven’t yet met irl) and those who will definitely be invited to FAB soiree, like you and your wife!