Queer people are people. Don't hate. And further don't let people who twist the words "don't hate" manipulate you into behaving a certain way, catering to their activist mindset. You are not a slave. You are a rational being. Act like it. If you have something to teach, then teach. If you have something to learn, then listen. Few other things directed at others are worthwhile. Your own desire to manipulate people will be your downfall.