> What if I do not what to have likes display together with my note?
In the abstract, it is impossible to prevent your users’ clients from asking relays for reactions and aggregating the results. Uncensorability is a foundational principle of the nostr protocol.
It is possible for client implementations to honor your preference and hide that information from other users. Damus is trying this out with OnlyZaps.
Users who don’t want to have that information hidden can choose to use other clients which do not censor reactions.