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Oh yea it's a classic strategy that works for everything from shows to bars. Get the ladies in and you've got the guys.

I'm surprised there aren't in your experience. I guess there's just a lot of unserious/indecisive people? I always thought it was easy easier for ladies.

3shara 2y ago

Ohhhhh I had no idea 🤯 never been to a club, but that would make total sense.

It’s very rare to find a guy that you click with who also wants something real. But I’m okay with that tbf, means I’ll appreciate it that much more when it happens 😍💯💜 also quite like being single ☺️ am learning to appreciate this time 🙏🏽.

Dating apps are like scrolling on Netflix for some people. You see something you like but you just can’t seem to decide because there are too many options 🥲, but you might plan to watch that great movie next week and leaving it on the back burner. People get addicted to swiping. Not like good old Blockbuster 😂.

Nah, the struggle is real for us all 💜🫂🙏🏽

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Bodhi☯️ 2y ago

Yea I'm not the club type either, I just know from playing in bands that that's the strategy to get good ticket sales lol.

Yea it might just be hard to find people in general that have done the inner work to be ready for something real. Humans exclusive a lot of suffering and trauma and if they haven't developed the tools to be healthy in relationships they end badly. I feel like a lot of people have given up on that in these dating scenes just due to how unhealthy people are in mind, body, and soul.

I had to do a lot of work sitting in vipassana for years and doing other various types of meditation to go through all that stuff and it wasn't until a few years ago that I finally felt I was ready after recognition of anatta happened on my 30th bday in the midst of the worst depression I ever went through.

Funny how those things work. Anywho yea you gotta be happy being alone for sure!

Bodhi☯️ 2y ago

Humans experience a lot*

Bodhi☯️ 2y ago

Yea I think the attention span of people has been manipulated to be very low and to treat it almost like a meat market. Few seem interested in getting deep and that's something I need in relationship. I like to listen to whole albums, hear the whole story etc because to me that's the intimacy that I crave in a true connection.