Ask chatGPT to teach you. You can add prompts like "tell me like I am 8 years old" to take it quite basic. Or follow up with more complex as you make progress.

But you gotta practice, get your hands dirty, finger muscle memory etc.

before you dive into language dilemma, here is my tip: you can do almost anything (backend frontend) with JavaScript.

Python for machine learning.

VScode for editor. Don't look for adventure for others.