Or maybe fuck them all and really, just use Bisq, which is quite simple and has never once given me any sort of problem.

It's also good to do it now, and to use a variety of transaction methods (bank transfer, Wise in several different currencies, Amazon Vouchers, etc), so you're verified/validated with each method, so when the real time of need comes, you have more options and higher volumes available.

Granted, sometimes people on the P2P exchanges have absurd and unrealistic expectations to get some crazy premiums above the market. But that is solved by having more people, more liquidity and more volume, so the market can act.