Hmm... The way I'm actually living it, is that the file uploaders on more and more clients now upload my stuff to Primal or Band, instead of to Build or Sovbit (both of which I pay for and strongly prefer over the other two).
I can only get away from their datenkraken by using Jumble's file-uploader or manually uploading to Build or Sovbit, and then copy-pasting in the URL. And then they grab everything, anyway, and squirrel it away.
The Blossom servers are the Baddies, in my world.
If I had wanted them to hold a copy of my image, I would have given it to them.
Using Nostr is getting creepier and creepier. So many relays don't respect deletes. The developers almost all work for the same dude. AUTH isn't being implemented. The media servers act like stalkers...