I have counted each of your > with a number
1. through my work i can tell you that i treat every signing device, no matter if e.g. coldcard, bitbox or seedsigner like the seedsphrase itself. security is not a state but only a snapshot
I verify and flash the firmware before use
I think you know better than i do that the biggest danger for bad entropy is the human being.
2. I have found at least attempts to micropython and the esp32 platform on github.
3. I wouldn't trust myself to rate more open, but definitely less complex chips (but a black box is still a black box)
with financial support, the team could purchase security support if necessary (foss is simply a hard place)
Btw. I would juse a notebook without wireless adapters if necessary. I will never recommend it because you can make a lot of mistakes. But I trust the SeedSigner as part of my signer concept.
And yes I think im biased / but I always try to be open minded to improve myself