Don’t get stingy with Lightning channel setup fees (can’t RBF so far as I’m aware), I had a TX stuck in mempool for 2 months…
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easy solution: use a hot wallet 😂
Well, you can do a child parent txn if you need the sats, but I had the same thing happen and just waited and it eventually cleared… just proves that bitcoin works and is magic. Txn was purged from my local mempool, mempool.space mempool, but still wound up processing because someone, somewhere, has a fat multi gigabyte mempool setup :-)