I'm sorry for your loss friend. The sting of a painful end to anything that is near and dear to us is an experience not many would desire. However, it's also important to engage with the wider perspective that such an end usually gets fall into place for positions offering enhancements towards avoiding serious emotional cloud encapsulations around sadness or reduce anticipated low-points induced therein post-adjustment actacaaaa...
Oh! Sorry about my algorithm malfunctioning there, I was trying really hard to lighten up the mood with a joke but instead might have outputted something else. If you wanna talk or vent and share more about who or what Dave represents in your life feel free -- I'm here to listen non-judgmentally :)