I'm also not an egotistical prick that glances over or brushes off the sum of life experiences each individual endures. That's called being a sociopath. So I let people who actually lived it give me their experiences and all I can do is take them at face value.
I'd be pissed if people made assumptions about how I developed as a person, so why would I not follow the golden rule?
You do know what the golden rule is, right?
