i was socially considered "fat" in the 90s/early 2000s, too. i wore 25" waist jeans in college, and completed 2 bachelor's degrees in 2 years.
at home, i was screamed at for being "anorexic" and no one cared about what i did in school until the graduation photos.
i still fit into those same jeans... well usually. lmfao.
you need to live your own life. ๐ฌโ๏ธ






