Often times, they are unaffected by those consequences. Leaves me no bandwidth to empathize with them or the root of their deeds. Energy is exhausted sympathizing/empathizing with the consequence bearers. Not exactly related to your example, but think of the promising young man who allegedly murdered 4 other young people in Idaho…

On the flip side, I find hate amusing - “resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die” St. Augustine😃(what a rascal)